Hi I really enjoyed your piece as I have experienced something similar on many occasions. I am a generation x 53 year old and I remember when I was in my early 20’s wanting to be able to openly date a few men. Well, they each made me feel like shit about it and I ended up alone. Back then it made me upset. Today I don’t give a rats ass. I say keep doing you! Any man worth a significant relationship wants a woman who is true to herself first.